We have been managing apartments for about four years now. It takes a lot of energy, patience and some days extra friendliness. Although some days it's really rather enjoyable. I have learned quite a few lessons managing girls and now boys on how I, as a parent, will be when my children enter college - STAY OUT OF THE WAY! I hope to teach my children MANY things before they move away from home. Especially common sense.
Here's the best example I have come across in the 4 years I have been managing. Most apartments here supply the large furniture for the single college students; couches, beds, TV, VCR/DVD, etc. Some students have some novel ideas come to them while away from home. Recently, I had a few residents decide that they would like to trade out their TV for a bigger one from another apartment. Not too bad, except the apartments they "traded" with were empty. So, how did they trade you say? Well, which apartment? The first apartment somehow had a window open, the other apartment they broke the door jam. Long story short, one TV was traded to a different apartment complex and another one was broken while being traded and after all was said and done I spent over 4 hours with the police as they arrested and charge these young men. Unfortunately, I am more involved than I ever thought I would be.
There are days when I wish I could just teach these young people the lesson in words vs. real life. However, some people just learn better through experience. The more that happens with this case the more I understand how differently boys and girls think. It's a shocker, I know. I just hope I can teach my children that same lesson without them experiencing real life in a jail cell.