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  • fizzle@quokk.automemes@lemmy.worldSeriously, who are these peoplem?
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    Meh. I can see both sides.

    I’ve always struggled with interactions. Didn’t like it as a kid.

    That said, I often wish I’d learned more about how to behave in polite company, because what seems obvious to others is not obvious to me.

    With my own kids, I certainly don’t “force them” to hug creepy old people, but encouraging them to greet acquaintances is just part of the normal things you teach kids because saying hello to people is not in fact intuitive.

    Honestly, if having to hug grandma when you were a kid even though she had a weird mustache is the worst thing that happened to you, then things were pretty good right?













  • My experience was the same as everyone else’s here: strict christian upbringing, not talking about things because they’re “bad”, and making up answers to things mum and dad don’t know.

    I’m trying to figure out parenting now. My plan, and I’m sure it won’t survive contact with the enemy, is to be as open, thorough, and honest as I can be about sex and drugs.

    While it is scary for me, I do want my kids to experiment with these things, but I want them to do it with as much contextual information as I can provide.

    “The talk” which I plan to give often, as commonly talked about house rules, is that there’s two ways adolescents can inadvertently change the course of their lives: car accidents, and getting pregnant.