This is one of those “cute overbearing dad” things until you realize you don’t have appropriate boundaries and it’s influencing your life in ways you don’t like, which usually happens sooner or later. Family counseling is a good place to start if you aren’t sure how to start that conversation. And I say that as a dad that will probably have to be talked down when my own kid hits dating age.
Kids get hurt, it’s not a parent’s job to stop that from happening, nor avenge them. It’s the parent’s job to teach them resilient, appropriate coping techniques.
Ah, some things are making more sense
Personally I’m finding more questions than answers.
Not bothering to ask, just waiting to get dripfed hints to the answers through hornposts of questionable taste
Is there a Violet megathread somewhere? I want to make sure I haven’t missed any episodes. 🫣
Yep. Click her username to see it.
Well yeah, but those are just the ones with her current account. I meant a thread that centralised the posts she’s made from her old ones as well.
Let’s not do that. That’s kinda creepy. I really hope we don’t get those e-stalker communities that follow random posters
Babe wake up violets latest schizoposting spree has started.
I’m imagining a situation where I’d do that if I were the dad, to then nag to my child:
- Dear, are you sure, he’s a Java programmer, it’s fucking boring.
my dad is disappointed that I’m wasting my time with an “ordinary man,” but he never stands in my way if I’m happy
Okay I really start to get quite invested into your shenanigans.
Is there more context?
i have an overpowered, well-connected dad who’s really involved in my life. been talking about my crazy family here since my first account back in February🤠
My mom similarly background checks my partners and friends. It’s pretty annoying. I try to spare as many as I can by feeding identifying details as slowly as I can.
Is your dad Elon Musk? He has a whole PI division for monitoring his interests.
Nah, as if Elon Musk could ever accept a female child.
He literally paid for every single one, to not get a daughter, and the one daughter he got, got disowned.
From a comment on one of her older threads, I believe her dad is Swiss; that would rule out phony stark
That would be so fucking funny
My face when I was dating the daughter of a couple who both worked for the cia 😱 were they analysts? Lawyers? Middle management? Wouldn’t say but they worked in Germany
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The solution for if they have a father is pretty obvious.
