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Cake day: June 14th, 2025

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  • Sc00tertomemes@lemmy.worldThis is reality
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    7 days ago

    Ive gotten over itnas best i can. The worst is when i cook something, and she decides thats not what she wants, so she cooks something else for herself.

    But she also gets upset that she does most of the cooking. Like yeah no shit. I dont need praise from you for everything i do, but less negative reinforcement would go a long way.

    Therapy is helping though. I can hear it in the way she talks to our kids about life and how to treat others. So the realization is coming through




  • Sc00tertoGaming@lemmy.worldIt feels good to support
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    9 days ago

    I havent seen this movie in years, but i believe these are two different events. The “HOLD” is when theyre being rushed by the calvary and they have the spears (sharpened tree branches) laying on the ground in front of them. He waits for the horses to get close enough so they can’t stop when all the spears pop up, impaling the horses, and launching their riders into the crowd to be destroyed.




  • Sc00tertoGreentext@sh.itjust.worksAnon works in an office
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    12 days ago

    I learned this lesson after about 5 years into my 15 year career. Busting your ass and going above and beyond just rewards you with more work. When i discovered what i was capable of, rarely did i give over 80%. The bonus there was when something was actually high priority, you can turn it up to 100 and get the recognition for going above and beyond.

    Ive cruised until those moments. Im now outranking some of my peers who have gone hard and always “exceeded expectations” on their performance eval. Corporate life is bullshit and totally not fair. Its very political and very much a buddy-buddy in group

    Edit: grammar. Words are hard first thing in the morning