It is 1926. War has come and I am being persecuted for my sexuality.
It is 2026. The world economy is collapsing and I am being persecuted for my sexuality.
It is 2126. The ghouls have risen once again and I am being persecuted for my sexuality.
It is 2126
Awfully optimistic today, aren’t we?
Idk I’ve only met open minded ghouls (if not feral). They’re not Caesar’s legion
Ghouls that are bodily falling apart do not care a lot about what parts you like or have. Ghouls are very much pansexual in my headcanon.
It is 2226. The plains have run bare of human flesh and I am being persecuted for my asexuality
lol no meat left for fucking
hate family
get that dick
dick gives you confidence
???
women want your dick
How comes that women dislike bi guys? I’ve heard that more than once now. Is that historical or what strange tidings did it take to come to that? Gay men do not seem to have that issue with bi guys, or do i see that wrong? And i don’t see the same shit going down with bi women.
Please educate me.
There’s a stigma around bi people that bi men are actually just gay and bi women are just straight. A good chunk of women perceive a bi man to just be closeted gay and are turned off by it. I personally don’t think those women are worth worrying about, but they are out there and coming out as bi to a woman can just end your chances every now and then.
I understand now.
I also have to say this is really fucking stupid.
But a lot of things nowadays are fucking stupid and still exist, so i will probably have to cope with that.
Stupid people are out there. Plenty of them. Like it has always been. At this point, I am more than happy if the stupid people identify themselves before I spend thoughts and emotional attachments on them.
It is not just about stupidity. Every day, some of the smartest people in the world get out of bed and go on to make some of the dumbest choices. A decorated academics professor may have an unreflected world view and a doctor may smoke their health away. Humans are majorly influenced by their upbringing and experiences, and when there is enough damage caused, a population will suffer the consequences through the failure of the individual.
This is why I never cheer when a tragedy happens in the world, even when it hits the worst people imaginable. It would be like throwing a snowball towards somebody standing uphill on a snowy mountain slope: When they fall over, the avalanche will not care who caused it.
I think it’s supposed to mean they don’t like Anon specifically. Like, women don’t get attracted by anon.
Could be, but i have, like i said, heard that women have a real issue with hooking up with bi men. @[email protected] made me aware of the stigma around bi guys, and i really have to agree it’s fucking stupid (cmon girls, where’s the issue if the guy likes the occasional cock if your sexual life has been centered around getting fucked by the same body parts, both of you agree that getting dicked down can be hot)
It isn’t a stigma. It’s a preference. Sure, some women might not want to date a bi guy because “what will my friends think?” or something. But many will just find the idea of a man wanting to sleep with other men unattractive for literally any reason or lack of reason and that’s fine. Everyone is entitled to their own sexual preferences and, importantly, you aren’t going to talk them out of it. Peoples sexual preferences are about as under their control as their intuition that poop smells bad and flowers smell good. It’s really weird when gay people don’t get this, because they’ve been fighting for the past several decades to get the straights to realize that they aren’t choosing to be gay.
I’d say there is a difference between “your physiology isn’t attractive to me” and “what you like makes me feel icky”. The first one i agree with fully and is completely in line with your arguments; the second one is a social construct and discriminatory.
What makes a social construct any less real or any more mutible than physiology?
Again, the gay community has been arguing for a while now that gender itself is a social construct. Suppose we have a nice lesbian couple. Then one day, one if the women says to the other “it has taken me a long time to realize this, but I’m actually a man. I’m going to start boxing, shooting guns, focusing on earning lots of money, and rebuilding a Trans Am.” If his (formerly her) partner hears this and loses attraction to him - not through any rational mechanism nor potential change in body shape or dress, but simply because she is turned off by the cultural construct of masculinity - then does that make her attraction discriminatory?
It’s an interesting question. I’d say, with what i have learned over the time, that there is of course some validity here; as you say, these things can change attraction. But I also have to acknowledge that simply the fact that a man won’t rule out men as sexual partners, regardless of if he even realizes that desire, makes him undateable for a lot of women, which i can only see as bigotry - maybe those women see other men as something they can’t compete with, and that is a completely made up thing.
If a man hears from his female date that she doesn’t have reservations against women in her bedroom because she thinks it’s hot, you wont get that same reaction. Probably has to do with the fact that men seldom fear being replaced with a woman. (which is the same kind of bollocks as the fear that women show regarding being replaced by a man - both have about the same probability, the only thing that changed is the amount of selfesteem)
But I also have to acknowledge that simply the fact that a man won’t rule out men as sexual partners, regardless of if he even realizes that desire, makes him undateable for a lot of women, which i can only see as bigotry - maybe those women see other men as something they can’t compete with, and that is a completely made up thing.
I mean, I don’t believe that this doesn’t exist. But also, I think you are still failing to consider that most peoples sexual/relationship preferences are not logically derived, but are instead driven by very deep psychological drives that the individual has little if any control over.
Also, I’m not trying to insult you here, but I feel like you should take a step back and consider something else, which is that you yourself may be falling into a very common thought pattern of men who do not feel sufficiently desired by women. The great abundance of slash fiction should be evidence enough that many women find men who sleep with other men attractive. Why not just date those women? Or to put it another way - if you had 8 different women blowing up your phone to suck your bi dick, would you really be all that concerned with the women who weren’t interested in you?
I feel like what is really going on is that you aren’t getting the female attention you want, so you are boiling it down to whatever your biggest insecurity is (you are bi) and then concluding that women are bad people (they are bigots). But we can easily swap in something else: I don’t get the female attention I want because I’m short and women are shallow. I don’t get the female attention I want because I’m poor and women are gold diggers. I don’t get the female attention I want because I’m Indian and women are racist. Etc. And these guys do have a legitimate complaint of unfairness. They do get less attention from women than they would otherwise if they were tall, rich, and white. But it is sort of like complaining that a bird shit on your shirt - yeah it sucks. But it is no one’s fault, and the only thing to do is accept it and start dealing with it.
Oh, I didn’t know. Well, every day you learn something, I guess.
See your dad ez fix
Anon is suffering from low self esteem. If you or someone you know is in a similar predicament, give them a hug today or another day, and let them know that you know that they’re going through what they’re going through, so they know that you know what they know that they’re going through. It might even help, or not.
what if my self esteem is so low the hug makes it worse because i think i didn’t deserve it
