Also, for the sake of maximising engagement - what mistakes did adults in-general make when interacting with you as a kid, that you avoid replicating today?

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    7 months ago

    Hitting your kids: don’t fucking do that. You might not ever see them when they reach adulthood.

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        It is exceptionally hard for children to be removed for child abuse.

        Especially if the mother is the one doing it. It must leave visible marks and be documents by a doctor or a policeman . It needs to show a pattern and be obvious the amount of force was excessive. This needs to happen several times to show a pattern. Must be documented.

        That only begins the cps process.

        You(only moms?) 100% absolutely can hit your kids so long as you don’t hospitalize them. It fucking sucks to watch from the side .

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      Forget the selfish reason. Just don’t hit people because you can’t control your emotions.

      If you won’t hit your boss don’t hit your kid.

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          Perhaps. I’m not sure I agree, honestly.

          But I’m certain there’s never a time to hit a person you’re responsible for, who depends on you.