• birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 months ago

      This is also why if I ever have child(ren), I want to be upfront about them telling me if something bad happened.

      I will generally not judge them, and even if I do, I think it’s better to empathise first without judging, then look for a solution and end it with “it would def be better to do X or Y”.

      That said… the ONE thing I’m going to really judge anyone about is if they take all the cookies. Sorry, but nobody empties the cookie bin without refilling it.

      • clockworkrat(he/him)@slrpnk.net
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        2 months ago

        Aye. Our kid hasn’t done anything quite this dramatic (yet, but also only a toddler), but has done things like spill milk over the sofa which I know some people would go apeshit over, but if the kid is already upset there’s no need to rub it in.

        You know what, nothing teaches better to hold a cup with two hands!