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Cake day: January 25th, 2025

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    20 hours ago

    My completely unrequested advice: try your best to stay or become the person that those you look up to (including your departed father) would be happy with you becoming. If you feel like you’re overly frustrated and about to have a breakdown, do whatever you can to bring yourself back.

    If that means you need to step away and take a vacation into a yurt or cabin in the woods with a Nintendo DS or a friend: do it. Therapy also helps if your insurance can afford it, and if you find the right therapist (most allow you to have a call to assess good fit).

    Hang in there.






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    1 day ago

    they’re all like, “calm down; you’re overreacting”. I’m like, “no, fuck you; you’re underreacting! People DIED.”

    Worst part is the response I’ve gotten from this. “It was just some old people and those that would have died anyway from something else.”

    Has anyone else over the age of 35 notice a major shift the past couple of decades regarding how little people care about literally anything?

    Until it impacts them personally, yes. Knew someone who thought covid was a common cold (had relatives with mild symptoms of any), then they caught it and it rocked them. Suddenly it wasn’t anything to make fun of anymore. If they didn’t have bad symptoms, they still wouldn’t care.

    It’s as if people forgot how to communicate with each other outside of the internet… Is it just me?

    Definitely not just you.