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JoJo ( jojo@lemmy.blahaj.zone )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 months ago

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JoJo ( jojo@lemmy.blahaj.zone )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 3 months ago
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  • FreddiesLantern ( FreddiesLantern@leminal.space ) 
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    3 months ago

    He didn’t tell the personal thing, typical men!

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    I can’t be the only one who showered with their dad.

    • Lumidaub ( Lumidaub@feddit.org ) 
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      Wait oh you mean you’ve seen your dad’s genitals.

      While I never showered with my dad or mum, my parents were never ashamed of their bodies and ran around the house naked all the time so I’ve seen my dad’s too. I didn’t closely inspect them though so for all I know they might be surgically constructed.

      • grrgyle ( grrgyle@slrpnk.net ) 
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        I guess I had a lot of dick questions growing up and also having a dick myself got the foreskin talk and associated instructions. Obviously this is all pre pre teen before it gets weird

        • Lumidaub ( Lumidaub@feddit.org ) 
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          Okay but a trans man could answer those questions as well, no? But I suppose that might be when the topic of past surgery could’ve come up for the dad and kid in the comic.

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            Any guardian could really, just affects the example they’d use I guess.

            Anyway I’m shocked to picture a kid just… not questioning what genitals are all about.

            I just have to remember it’s a fun comic about a hypothetical situation.

            • Lumidaub ( Lumidaub@feddit.org ) 
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              How do you mean, “question what genitals are all about”? He just didn’t know his dad used to have a vagina (or still has one, I did invent the part where he may have had bottom surgery). That doesn’t mean anything about whatever else he might know or not know. I think I’m confused about what you’re confused about? 😅

              • grrgyle ( grrgyle@slrpnk.net ) 
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                Ah the missing piece is I forgot about bottom surgery. I didn’t actually… know dudes did that too 🫣

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                  Well now you know :D

                  I actually looked up whether it would’ve been possible for my dad to have had surgery before I was born or even old enough to be aware of him being “male” and it’s been a thing MUCH longer than I thought, so we both learnt something. Anyway, not beating those allegations, dad. (j/k he’s very clearly cis)

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      Probably but is this where you wanted to post this?

      Edit: got it, see other reply.

    • Rusty ( Rusty@lemmy.ca ) 
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      Someone even made a game about their experience https://store.steampowered.com/app/359050/Shower_With_Your_Dad_Simulator_2015_Do_You_Still_Shower_With_Your_Dad/

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    Not every dysphoric person is always frowning. There’s plenty of them with “Harold hide the pain” mentality. I get that this is an illustration but it’s reinforcing a stereotype.

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    I didn’t learn my mom was married one more time than I thought until I was like, 19.

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