I have a feeling that I am going to feel like a single parent at times for the next few weeks. Alex is back in school so that means work, school, homework and long hours for him. He's only taking 2 classes instead of the three he took in the Fall, but he'll still be busy nonetheless. School is 4 days a week so he's either at school or work late. I had the first taste of it last night. Since I wanted to g to the gym and workout, Alex met me at the gym to pick-up Carli and bring her home. This meant leaving work earlier than he would have if I hadn't asked him to do this, so he then had to work at home. As a result, I ended up bathing Little Cutes myself. I did this Monday night when Alex didn't get out of class until 10 pm. Yup, 10 PM.
In fact, Carli loves bathtime so it's quite fun bathing her. But last night she pooped in her tub. I had to pull her out, empty the tub, clean it out, then refill it. At least it's just baby poop so it's not too bad to deal with. Since Alex was downstairs working, 1) I didn't want to bother him and 2) I would've had to yell pretty loud to get him to hear me. So dutifully and like a seasoned mom, I just took care of it. And this happened not once, not twice, but three times last night. After the third time, I gave up and just put her under the tub faucet to wash her off and bathtime was done.
Thankfully for both her and I, neither of us were traumatized by the event(s). Anyway, back to the single parent thing. Alex found out yesterday that he has to he in DC for work next week. Tues-Sat. Great. To the rescue: Aunty Marni!! My step-sister had been talking about visiting, so with the latest development I texted her and asked her to really come. She has Delta flight benefits through her mom, so she can just hop on a plane pretty easily. She is planning on being here when Alex has to be gone to keep me company and help me out. Yay!
I told Alex this news with the comment that she was going to come so I don't have to be a single parent. His reply, "So I'm a deadbeat dad already huh?". "No honey, you're just a busy working daddy." Don't worry. We'll all survive. I think. (smile) Will report back after his trip... Now it's time to put Carli back in her crib and head back to bed. Good night. Good morning.