Jimmy said something kind of funny the other day. This is how the conversation went:
Jimmy: Mommy I know where gold comes from. Me: Really, where? Jimmy: It comes from sun drops - like rain drops but from the sun. Me: Oh, how do you know that? Jimmy: The voices in my head told me. Me: You have voices in your head? Jimmy: Yea, they tell me things a lot.
After that I just kind of ended the conversation. At first I was a little concerned that he was telling me that he had voices in his head but as I thought about it I don't think it's that abnormal. I mean kids have imaginary friends and stuff like that all the time. Maybe it's just Jimmy's way of explaining the way that he thinks about different things. Jimmy is definitely a kid with a vivid imagination so I'm not going to worry. I'm just going to smile and enjoy all of the interesting things that his "voices" tell him. Who knows I might learn something I didn't know before.
While my family was here we got to go to a Dodger game. It was "Mormon night" at the game so we got a deal on the tickets. They were in left field so it was kind of hard to focus on the game but it was fun anyway. Last year we took Jimmy and Ben to an Indians game and Ben freaked out because it was so loud there. He is extremely sensitive to loud noises. So we spent the whole night with Ben up in the kiddie play area. Jim and I took turns with him so at least one of us could be watching the game. Needless to say, it was a frustrating night. So I was nervous to take Ben to the game this time but he assured me that he would be very brave. I thought that kind of sounded funny thinking that it takes so much bravery to go to a baseball game. But I guess when you think about it, being 4 years old with a sensitivity to loud noises and being surrounded by about 50,000 people could be pretty scary. But he did great. He was very brave indeed. The Dodgers were down pretty much the whole game and a lot of people were starting to leave. We stuck around, don't ask me why, because our kids were all over the place like wild monkeys, but we stayed anyway. At the bottom of the 9th there was a walk-off home run and the Dodgers ended up winning 5-4. The crowd went wild and then Ben kind of melted down. He had hit his end so we got out of there as soon as possible. But I was proud of him for sticking it out and facing his fears. Way to go Ben! When we got to the game I told him he could scream as loud as he can so he did. I think it helped him cope with it but I'm not sure that the people around us appreciated it.
This has nothing to do with the Dodger game but on Saturday after Pam and Bonnie headed home with their families, my parents came to visit me for lunch before their flight left. It was my birthday so they brought me a cake. I've got great parents. Thanks mom and dad!
Last week my mom and dad and my 2 sisters, Pam and Bonnie, and their families came to Newport Beach for a little vacation. This is one of the perks of living in LA. Everyone comes to visit! I love it! Anyway, we had a great time at the beach. We went to Newport Beach one day and Huntington Beach another day. We spent hours there and had a blast! We made sand castles, found all sorts of shells - even a couple clams that were still closed together. That was pretty cool until Ben threw it and broke it on the pavement :( We also found TONS of sand crabs. The best ones were at Newport Beach. We found some huge ones. Ben wanted to bring one home for a pet. I think that might be illegal so we just kept them in their home.
I have to say it is soooo nice to go to the beach when there are other people there to help with the kids. Usually when I go it is with a playgroup with other moms who are busy keeping track of their own kids. But this time there was a great adult to kid ratio. There was also their 6 cousins who they had a great time playing with. Cousins to play with and lots of adult eyes watching makes for a very relaxing and therapeutic (for me) time at the beach!
Maybe one day they'll actually use the boogie board the way it is intended to be used. But for now they are just enjoying the ride! I actually got out there on the boogie board but too bad there are not pics to show. I'm really disappointed about that ;) Especially since the waves definitely got the best of me. But at least I gave it a try.
We had fun building sand castles. Something about digging in the sand really is therapeutic for me. I loved it!
Here are the little architects. They were great little helpers! It took us a couple hours to put this together but it was fun!
So for the whole year that we've lived here, Ben has been pretty terrified of the waves. He pretty much kept his distance and just enjoyed staying close to the umbrella digging in the sand. This is how he started the first day we went to Newport Beach. He would inch up a little and as soon as he saw the wave coming he would bolt for the sand.
But he got much braver as the time progressed. Once he let the water hit his feet a few times he realized that he actually likes it and he had a great time after that. Thank goodness he's over that. However, that means that I will now have to keep my eyes open wide when I'm alone with the kids at the beach. Especially because Luke will run into the water in about 2 seconds flat. He doesn't bother waiting for me. Here are some pics of Ben getting more comfortable with the water. He's kind of hard to see but he's there.
I think my boys probably brought home about a pound of sand each in their hair, skin, and shorts. Thank goodness for baby powder. It works great at getting sand off of skin. I wouldn't dream of going to the beach without it!
Jimmy recently celebrated his 6th birthday! We had a pool party for him and his friends and had a great time! Jimmy is way into Star Wars lately so he wanted a Star Wars cake and decorations. It was a small and simple party but it was fun for the kids. As an added bonus Jim and I let him watch Star Wars episode IV on his birthday. We figured he is old enough for that now and he thought it was the greatest birthday present ever. He also got a razor scooter and rides it EVERYWHERE!
I'm about a month late but we celebrated Ben's birthday while we were in Utah. We had a little barbecue in Craig and Sandy's back yard with a Transformer theme. Ben was so excited for his transformer cake and for his presents. It really doesn't take much to please my boys - thank goodness. He was so excited when he received a package of glow sticks and when we told him that they were all his and he was in charge of them he thought he was king of the world! It was fun to watch his eyes light up as he saw the cake and opened his presents!
It was quite entertaining to watch my dad and Jim try to figure out the transformers that Ben got for his birthday. I was teasing Jim because it took him a while to figure it out. He does have 2 masters degrees (one in engineering) and is currently working on his PhD. Just kidding Jim, I love ya ;) My dad was happy when he figured it out and Ben was obviously happy to play with them.
My dad has a friend who lives on a farm out in Willard so we got to take the boys to see all of the cool things there. We saw bullfrogs, polliwogs, fish, bulls, rabbits, cats, dogs, tractors and LOTS of mosquitoes. The kids were in heaven! I couldn't believe that this cat was letting the boys maul the poor thing to death. I just kept telling it to run away and hide but it didn't listen to me. I've never seen a cat put up with this kind of thing. It was crazy! Needless to say, they had a blast - the kids that is, not the cat!
We were at church and during the sacrament I was talking to Luke about Jesus. I told him that Jesus bled and died for us. Luke looked at me with a very concerned look and said, "Did Heavenly Father give Jesus a band-aid when he was bleeding?"
We were about to walk out the door so I told Luke to go potty. He came out of the bathroom saying, "I can't go! The batteries in my pee pee are dead!"
After Ben finished a big meal he said, "my tummy is so big and full I look like Grandpa now!" (sorry dad).
Ben pointed to a picture of the prophet and said, "That's President Monckley!"
We have a saying in our house. It's "you get what you get and you don't throw a fit!" But Ben has his own version of this. He says "you get what you WANT and you don't throw a fit!"
Jimmy said that he is allergic to babies. I asked him how he knew and he said that he gets sick when he smells them.
Ben asked me for another piece of halloween candy and I said, "Mommy is ready for the halloween candy to be gone" and Ben said, "Yea, gone in my mouth!"
We were driving past the gas station sign and Ben said, "I see a lowercase 5 on that sign."
I was talking to Jimmy about election day and asking him if his teacher voted and he said that she was "absent" that day. (I finally realized what he meant. She had just mailed in an absentee ballot.)
Ben put a whole bunch of toilet paper in the garbage and I told him that is a no, no. He said, "no it's a yes, yes!"
I tell Jimmy on a regular basis that needs to talk nicely. He yelled something across the room to me and I gave him the look that said I didn't like the tone of his voice and he said, "I was yelling nicely!"
Jimmy and I are listening to "Give Said the Little Stream" and Jimmy says "How does it talk?" I said "How does what talk?" He said, "The stream, it doesn't have a mouth, how can it talk?"
Jimmy said something kind of funny the other day. This is how the conversation went:
