Hello everyone,
It's a little longer tonight but it has lots of information...Sorry.
Carter had his tests done today that were scheduled for Monday. The new results should start coming in on Monday. The tests are many but they are primarily designed to rule things out rather than to find out what he may have, if anything. To have all the results can take up to 10-days so we should have new information regularly for the next couple of weeks. The things we know of thus far are: Down Syndrome, holes in his heart, difficult breathing pace, high bilirubin output, enlarged heart and liver and a few other organs. We know of the following but not how severe/not severe they may be; reflux, gastro/esophogus things and liver output, and the cause of his still at times rapid breathing. His respirations have come down some (averaged) but his breathing is still too fast. His oxygen needs remain unchanged at 3 litres at 21-28% as needed. He has gone several days not needing more than 28% and he is generally at 21%-22% unless he gets restless and mad. He does enjoy his water baths which soothe him! Kristi also changed his diaper today and each time, he filled it up. She ended up changing his diaper 3 times in about 5-7 minutes! Greg, MeLynn and Brittany came up today and got to hold him. Greg and I had the first shift today and we could not get him to wake up for us but the girls were successful and they girls and Carter got to play!
The doctors are still curious on his liver functionality because of his continued high bilirubin count. Some of the tests are to find out why the bilirubin continues to be high. Also, the echocardiogram will continue on a weekly basis for now each Wednesday to make sure the holes in his heart continue to close up. Apparently, there are now 3, one they didn't see before but they all seem to be doing what they are supposed to and that is closing or at least getting smaller. They have not focused very much on his heart rather they just monitor it so we interpret that as his heart should be ok. At least no pending operations at this point.
I forgot to mention in last night's report that I asked Dr. Kwok, Carter's neonatologist, on Friday if he thought two weeks was a good time frame where Carter might get to come home and he simply said, "No. Weeks". Darn. We can only assume it means three weeks or longer so maybe Mother's Day will be a good time frame (and probably the earliest) that Carter can come home. Our fingers are crossed. RSV season should be ending soon so Parker and Ashleigh should be able to go into his room in the next 10-days or so. It is so hard for them. Both want to see him badly and I think they would hold him too.
I'm going to try to take Ashleigh to a Siblings class that is held each Tuesday from 4:00 to 5:00. Children are given dolls with play IVs and canulas so that when they see the new baby, they won't be shocked or scared by what they see. It's probably good for Parker too but we'll need to check him out early for school to get there in time. The class is taught by one of Carter's nurses from last week. I wish I would remember her name. Today's nurse was Maria, a new nurse for Carter.
We're going to go up there again tomorrow morning and this next week we'll talk to Dr. Kwok some more. He is a wonderful neonatologist and is Carter's attending physician and is very open and accessible for us. We simply ask the nurse for him and he comes to Carter's bedside to visit with us.
Thanks again for all your prayers and support. Our family is being blessed even though it has been hard some days. This week has been one of the hardest (at least for me) since he was born because it seems like new problems developed even though it's all focused around his breathing and reflux and now liver. It's just the learning curve for us though and we're doing well.
Just one example I can share of how prayers are answered and our family blessed. I took Parker grocery shopping tonight and on his own he pushed the cart and he sent me to pick up some items on the list. Once in the cart, he marked the item off the list. At check out, he placed the items on the counter and then bagged the groceries into sacks and was even offered a job by the checker! Once home, he unloaded the car by himself, put away the groceries and cleaned up. It was a very nice evening for what has been a very long 20 days Carter has been with us.
QUICK NOTES: Carter will be three weeks old on Monday. Daily round trip miles from our home to PCMC and back is 45 miles. Assuming one trip a day which is our minimum, we've traveled 900 miles to/from PCMC since he was born. That is the distance from SLC to Onaka, South Dakota.
Love,
Alan & Kristi