Aquileo | Divisions by zero - Gayhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/Gay<h1>Welcome to /c/Gay</h1> <p><em>A community for gay news, culture, and conversation.</em></p> <p><em>Partnered with the Gaywave Discord Server — <a href="https://lemmyverse.link/lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/54236449" rel="nofollow">Check out more here.</a></em></p> <details><summary>Rule 1: Be Respectful</summary><p>This is a space for community and discussion.<br /> - No harassment, dogpiling, or brigading<br /> - No bigotry (homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, etc.)<br /> - Respect one another. We’re here to connect, not to attack<br /> </p></details> <details><summary>Rule 2: Stay On Topic</summary><p>Posts should be related to gay news, culture, or community.<br /> - General LGBTQ+ topics are welcome too<br /> - Off-topic spam or low-effort posts will be removed<br /> </p></details> <details><summary>Rule 3: No Prohibited Content</summary><p>The basics apply here:<br /> - No spam or scams<br /> - No illegal content<br /> - No porn or sexually explicit content<br /> - NSFW content must be properly tagged<br /> </p></details> <hr /> <p>If you see a post that breaks the rules, please report it so the mods can handle it. Otherwise, share news, start conversations, and enjoy being part of the community. Love y’all &lt;3</p> Aquileo | GayWave - Officially Partnered Discordhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/54236449Stamets to Gay
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A few months ago now, a server admin reached out to me asking if I’d like to partner with their Discord community. They were branching out from reddit (like a lot of us here did) so I took a look to see if it was something I could recommend and, uh, yeah. It is.

GayWave

It’s a safe-for-work social server for gay and queer men, ages 18+, operating since 2017. This is a relatively mature space for guys to connect and share in a wonderful gay community. We’ve got

  • Regular voice & video chat
  • Community gaming events
  • Limited-time social games
  • Topical, serious, and boilerplate channels to discuss anything and everything

Also very much an inclusive community. Trans and non-binary folks are welcome and racism, transphobia, and bigotry in any form, as well as drama-mongering, are bannable offenses.

Interested? Come check it out! Invite Link!

In my past month I’ve met people who are interested in the weirdly specific shit I’m interested in as well as met people who have told me about things I’ve never heard of. There are members from America and Canada, of course, but also just the world over. The mods and admins are solid. They don’t overuse powers but they’re also quick on the ball and will gently remind people.

I am not super active on Discord in general but I’ve been more active there than anywhere else. Excluding my DnD groups. Due to all of my experiences, I have nothing but love to give to the server, its users and the admin/mod team for setting such an incredible tone.

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Aquileo | Cynthia Nixon is officiating the world’s biggest all-girl weddinghttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72791373Quokka to Gay
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Aquileo | Be An Allyhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72574894Quokka to Gay
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Aquileo | “Chilling”: Dad describes what it’s like when Trump admin targets your trans kid’s medical recordshttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72438939Quokka to Gay
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https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2026/07/chilling-dad-describes-what-its-like-when-admin-targets-your-trans-kids-medical-records/

The family has already fled the country

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Aquileo | TERF Activist J.K. Rowling Threatens To Finance Wave Of Attacks On Amnesty International Over Report On Anti-Trans Groupshttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72391895cm0002 to Gay
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https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/terf-activist-jk-rowling-threatens

JK Rowling // Wikimedia Commons

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Billionaire TERF influencer J.K. Rowling has announced that she will cover the legal costs of anti-trans groups named in a report by Amnesty International (UK), which called them “anti-rights.”

The report was retracted shortly after publication and replaced with a statement from the organization saying the report was uploaded “without going through the established internal review processes” and that its “language does not reflect the position of Amnesty International UK, which is why it was promptly removed.”

But the withdrawal and public acknowledgement was not enough to sate the organizations that have fought tooth and nail to exclude and/or antagonize the transgender community in the United Kingdom. The United Kingdom is notoriously more perilous for free speech than the United States. For our neighbors across the pond, the burden of proof lies with the defendant to prove the statement is true; here in the United States, the burden of proof lies with the aggrieved to prove that a statement is categorically false, and published knowingly or at least recklessly regardless. The US also benefits from “anti-SLAPP” laws to prevent such frivolous lawsuits waged by wealthy individuals or powerful corporations against those who criticize them.

So Rowling capitalized on the spectacle to, in essence, help dozens of groups in what appears to be an attempt to sue Amnesty into oblivion.

CAPTION: Screenshot from Rowling’s Twitter, where she offers “women’s organizations” backing to sue Amnesty International (UK) through her own charitable fund. She quote tweets a group of people who self-identify as “trans widows”—referring to cisgender people whose spouses or ex-spouses came out as transgender.

The saga began earlier this month, when Amnesty International (UK) released a report titled “A growing threat: the anti-rights movement in the UK.” It released a similar report last year, but this year, it added a new category for what appears to be the anti-rights movement’s most rapidly growing sector: “Gender critical” groups, or groups that are antithetical to transgender rights and inclusion.

Rowling rushed to tweet about the situation.

CAPTION: Rowling tweets a group’s response to Amnesty International (UK)’s report on “anti-rights” groups.

She lauded “LGB” groups—another anti-trans buzzword, which, as the name suggests, describes groups that wish to erase transgender people from the queer liberation movement—like the Gay Men’s Network, an organization that has pushed for anti-trans policies. That group posted a public letter indicating it might sue Amnesty International for defamation. The Network demanded a retraction of the report and then claimed that Amnesty is guilty of “trying to control gay and lesbian free speech.”

In the day or so that followed, Rowling retweeted around a dozen similar letters. The posted letters include groups like Genspect, a Southern Poverty Law Center-designated hate group that threatened Amnesty International with legal action, as well as groups like LGB Alliance and Sex Matters.

Amnesty International (UK) did not formally reply to a request for comment for this piece.

Gender critical activists, often financed by Rowling, rely on legal “guerilla warfare” said one U.K.-based trans rights organizer, who could only speak to Erin in the Morning if granted anonymity. The tactic is familiar: Wear down non-profits and individuals who dare speak out against anti-trans and anti-rights groups. They don’t have to win a lawsuit; they can just file again, and again, and again, draining valuable time and resources.

“They have sued organizations into the ground,” the advocate said.

Some context for just a handful of these groups so up in arms about being labeled as hateful: Helen Joyce, the director of advocacy for Sex Matters, gave a speech at a Genspect conference (both are groups on the anti-rights list) about how “beauty” is “inimical to trans bullshit.

She also boasted about manufacturing a moral and medical panic about how, although only a “small” segment of trans kids are prescribed puberty blockers, it has been a strategic “rhetorical device” to erode the rights of transgender people more broadly.

Depending on who you ask, TERFs are considered either a self-branded liberal faction of gender critical ideology, or a different term for what is essentially the same movement. TERF stands for “trans exclusionary radical feminist,” a term to describe self-proclaimed “feminists” who oppose giving transgender women and cisgender women equal rights.

Many of these TERF or “gender critical” groups have close ties to far-right Christian groups. DonorsTrust, the conservative donor behemoth and primary financier of initiatives like Project 2025, also forked over hundreds of thousands of dollars to groups like the Society for Evidence-based Gender Medicine and Thoughtful Therapists, both of whom made the “anti-rights” list because, as Amnesty International (UK) among many others have put it, they promote “conversion practices.”

One major point of contention was the inclusion of Rowling’s own organization, Beira’s Place. It does not primarily seem to function as any sort of advocacy organization. Rather, it’s a women’s shelter for those fleeing domestic violence, but it also has an explicit anti-trans policy, banning transgender women from accessing its services.

However, as the report explained, none of these groups exist in a vacuum. “These entities must be understood as an ecosystem sharing values, goals, strategy and tactics and, for some of them, formal collaboration,” it reads.

Amnesty isn’t the first or last institution or expert to call out gender critical ideology for being anti-rights. UN Women has published materials saying as much.

Meanwhile, University of Sheffield sociologist Dr. Sally Hines has called this framework “deeply conservative.” In the Journal for Gender Studies, she writes that “despite its origins within a branch of radical feminism, [gender-critical ideology] has a profoundly misogynist agenda that stands opposed to the rights of women.” It is a “key force within a current conservative pushback against the rights of women and minoritized sexual groups.”

Gender critical activists continue to use the language of oppression to characterize their plight. Many say “TERF” is a slur. Others believe criticizing a group because of its arguably regressive politics is grounds for a lawsuit.

Despite the fact that the report was pulled down, Erin in the Morning was able to retrieve a copy reposted by an anti-trans news outlet. You can read a full version of that archived version below.

Report A Growing Threat The Anti Rights Movement In The Uk July 2026

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Gay: News & Communityhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72391895https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72391895Thu, 16 Jul 2026 21:07:17 +0000https://suppo.fi/u/cm0002
Aquileo | LGB people often leave trans folks behind in times of struggle. Let’s not let this happen again.https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72361958Quokka to Gay
19 points | 0 comments
https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2026/07/lgb-people-tend-to-leave-trans-folks-behind-in-times-of-struggle-lets-not-let-this-happen-again/

for every $100 philanthropy gives to LGBTQ+ issues, only about three cents goes specifically to trans issues, according to the 2024 LGBTQ Funders Tracking Report. That was the landscape even before this administration took office.

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Aquileo | Obviously Gay-https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72067039RmDebArc_5 to Gay
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Aquileo | Man beat a 12-year-old while shouting anti-gay slurs in alleged hate crimehttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72027618Quokka to Gay
61 points | 7 comments
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Gay: News & Communityhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72027618https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/72027618Fri, 10 Jul 2026 08:40:24 +0000https://quokk.au/u/Quokka
Aquileo | WATCH: Gay Tr*mp supporter realizes he doesn’t know WTF he’s talking about in real timehttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71972169Quokka to Gay
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Gay: News & Communityhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71972169https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71972169Thu, 9 Jul 2026 10:03:35 +0000https://quokk.au/u/Quokka
Aquileo | Israel Targets LGBTQ+ Palestinians for Blackmail As Part of a System of Sexualised Violence, Report Findshttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71676784Quokka to Gay
24 points | 2 comments
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Aquileo | 'It’s hunting season': Man accused of threatening gay pride eventhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71530087Stamets to Gay
6 points | 0 comments
https://news3lv.com/news/nation-world/its-hunting-season-man-michael-kenneth-thompson-accused-of-threatening-gay-pride-event-clovis-new-mexico-lubbock-fbi-national-threat-operations-center]]>
Gay: News & Communityhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71530087https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71530087Wed, 1 Jul 2026 13:08:53 +0000https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/u/Stamets
Aquileo | Trans Exile Network and other organisations issue urgent travel advisory over UK civil rights crisishttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71525628Quokka to Gay
12 points | 0 comments
https://tacc.org.uk/2026/06/30/ten-and-other-organisations-issue-urgent-uk-travel-advisory/

On the 30th of June, the Trans Exile Network issued the following press release countersigned by Compton’s Cafe, Transpilot and ourselves. The UK has become an increasingly hostile place for trans people. This travel advisory outlines some of the legal and practical risks that LGBTQ+ visitors, especially trans people and those perceived to be trans, may face when travelling here. People deserve to make informed decisions about their safety. Please read and share this widely. PRESS_RELEASE_IMMEDIATE_30_June_2026Download - On the 30th of June, the Trans Exile Network issued the following press release countersigned by Compton’s Cafe, Transpilot and ourselves. The UK has

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Aquileo | [From 2024] 4 gay adult film stars who have publicly come out as Trump supportershttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71422659Stamets to Gay
4 points | 0 comments
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Aquileo | Malaysian government asks public to use derogatory phrase in place of "LGBT" - LGBTQ Nationhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71419680Stamets to Gay
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Aquileo | K-pop idol BAIN reflects on being first gay idol in active boy grouphttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71417660Stamets to Gay
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Aquileo | In 1978, a Toronto church hosted anti-gay activist Anita Byrant. This is how the LGBTQ+ community fought backhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71414413Stamets to Gay
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Aquileo | pretty useless nglhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71384166RmDebArc_5 to Gay
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Aquileo | Gay ice hockey player Luke Prokop on being the sport’s representation and game-changing impact of Heated Rivalryhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71252555Stamets to Gay
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Aquileo | Openly gay comedian Tim Dillon mocks corporate Pride month as ‘virtue signaling’https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71250056Stamets to Gay
6 points | 1 comments
https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2026/jun/25/openly-gay-comedian-tim-dillon-mocks-corporate-pride-month-virtue/]]>
Gay: News & Communityhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71250056https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71250056Fri, 26 Jun 2026 12:49:47 +0000https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/u/Stamets
Aquileo | Newly Released Texas GOP Platform Calls For Ban On Trans Teachers And Trans Care Under 26 Years Oldhttps://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/71218683Salamence to Gay
11 points | 0 comments
https://www.erininthemorning.com/p/newly-released-texas-gop-platform

cross-posted from: news.abolish.capital/post/59456

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Last month, the Texas Republican Party held its biennial convention at the George R. Brown Convention Center in Houston, where over 4,000 delegates assembled to elect new leadership, adopt an official platform, and set legislative priorities for the upcoming legislative session. Delegates overwhelmingly elected D’Rinda Randall as the new state party chair, carrying 25 of 31 Senate District caucuses in what political scientists described as a further rightward shift driven by the MAGA wing’s primary victories. The platform attracted national attention, but one section of it went unnoticed: a set of anti-trans provisions that, if enacted, would be among the most draconian in the country—including a ban on all gender-affirming care up to the age of 26 that extends to legal name changes, an absolute prohibition on transgender people working or volunteering in public schools, and a ban on private businesses expressing any support for transgender people.

"Gender Identity Ideology in Schools: The official position of the Texas schools shall be that there are only two genders: biological male and biological female, which are immutable and cannot be changed. We support the total prohibition of so-called social transitioning. We oppose transgender normalizing curriculum, library materials, and pronoun use. We support the prohibition of transgender individuals from serving in any school district positions, including in volunteer roles, and mandate the exclusive use of pronouns corresponding to a person’s biological sex at birth.”

Plank 116 of the platform goes on to call for banning any curriculum, library materials, or extracurricular offering that “adopts, supports, or promotes gender fluidity or transgender ideology” and prohibiting school staff from “engaging in sexualized drag activities, crossdressing, or transgenderism.”

The platform also calls for the criminal prosecution of parents of transgender youth under child abuse statutes—something Governor Abbott has already attempted, directing the Department of Family and Protective Services to investigate families of trans children in 2022. Plank 150 states: “Any agency, individual, or other entity promoting, performing, or facilitating gender-transitioning or gender-modification of a minor child shall be criminally prosecuted for child abuse and exposed to civil actions, enjoying no immunity regardless of profession, relation, or standing.” Importantly, the platform does not stop at minors. Plank 149 extends its prohibitions to legal adults as old as 25, banning all gender-affirming “medical or mental health intervention for persons between the ages of 18 and 26,” including not just surgery, puberty blockers, and hormones, but even "assigning name and/or pronoun changes.”

See the section of the platform here:

The platform also targets the private sector. Under the heading “Religious Freedom for Business,” Plank 203 calls for removing laws that “force business owners and employees to violate their conscience, sincerely held beliefs, or core values”—providing legal cover for businesses to discriminate against transgender people. But for businesses that want to be supportive, the platform offers no such freedom. Plank 203© goes further than any state party platform in the country, calling for an outright ban on businesses expressing support for transgender people:

Lastly, the platform does not just target transgender people—it targets LGBTQ+ people broadly. Its section on homosexuality opens with a declaration that would not be out of place in the 1950s: “Homosexuality is an abnormal lifestyle choice.” Plank 152 endorses conversion therapy for people of “any age with identity disorder or unwanted same-sex attraction”—a practice condemned by every major medical organization in the country. Plank 208 declares the party is “opposed to same-sex parenting, intentionally subjecting a child to the loss of their biological father or mother, and other non-traditional definitions of family.” And Plank 211 calls for nullifying Obergefell v. Hodges, the Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage, stating it “has no basis in the Constitution.” Taken together, the platform reads as a blueprint for rolling back not just transgender rights but decades of LGBTQ+ civil rights progress.

“I think the most concerning part is that the Texas GOP wants to cut off mental health support for trans people between the ages of 18 and 26. Because of AG Ken Paxton’s aggressive weaponization of the law, Texas is already the only state that bars that kind of mental health care from trans minors in direct violation of the Supreme Court’s recent conversion therapy ruling. Having been personally affected by the prohibition a couple years ago, it gives me chills to think of what will happen if the ban is extended even further,” says trans journalist Aleksandra Vaca, a resident of the state, in a quote provided to Erin In The Morning.

Many of these provisions are not new. The 2024 Texas GOP platform already declared homosexuality "an abnormal lifestyle choice” and already called for criminalizing anyone who facilitates youth transition. However, it is clear that the policy platforms are escalating in the Texas Republican Party. And the party has a track record of turning its platform into law—SB 14 banned youth care in 2023 and SB 8 restricted bathrooms in 2025. Transgender people in Texas, meanwhile, have to sit and wait to see which draconian policy from the platform gets implemented in 2027 due to a party that seeks to make the conditions of life impossible for transgender people.

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