You know how you are the internet and one thing leads to another? That’s how I ended up on “Stoic Wisdoms” and this substack — I can’t find an “about the author” or how this person is an expert. But I still want to share this post because it is quite interesting, but perhaps to me it is interesting on a slant. I’ll explain all this. I think starting by saying “I don’t really know what stoicism is” is important. And this blog post from Stoic Wisdoms is a blog “spreading Stoic wisdom and inspiring motivation. Embrace life’s challenges, find inner peace, and cultivate resilience.” This person isn’t just sharing what they think. They have provided references and links for more.
“The 5 Most Important Skills to Learn in 2026” April 6, 2026
In short: Critical Thinking, Attention Management, Financial Literacy, Adaptability, and Self-Reflection
In each section, the author explains (and links to more) what they mean. I found this quote really interesting:
“The Stoics drew a sharp line between principles and methods. Principles are the deep commitments that define your character: honesty, courage, justice, self-governance. These don’t change. They shouldn’t change. They’re the fixed point around which everything else can rotate.
Methods are how you apply those principles in specific circumstances. And methods must change, because circumstances change. The person who confuses their methods for their principles will fight to preserve a particular way of doing things long after that way has stopped working, because abandoning the method feels like abandoning the principle.”
The five skills this Stoic Wisdom writer discusses seem to me aimed at strengthening one to live a wiser life, not grabbing power or following fads or sleepwalking through life, but being awake. Perhaps I need to find time to explore this all more. Perhaps I don’t really understand! But keep reading!
Because here is where I slant a bit. I have stumbled recently upon the term “moral injury.” Here is a simple definition (as best I understand it) from several sites, but I’ll link to Syracuse University site: Moral Injury is the damage done to one’s conscience or moral compass when that person perpetrates, witnesses, or fails to prevent acts that transgress one’s own moral beliefs, values, or ethical codes of conduct.
I think or wonder that perhaps right now we all are living in a time and place where all our souls and hearts are being deeply wounded.
This is the ache I feel when I saw pictures of the destruction of the White House, and later the destruction of having a “cage fight” there. Even more seriously, the ache and tension and almost physical hurt I feel that our country is in an unjust war with Iran. The ache and pain of seeing — witnessing — so much, too much, of the destruction and the lies that this administration is spreading.
I am safe. I am privileged. I am ordinary! Yet there is no power I have to stop this spewing of hate and lies and destruction. I didn’t perpetrate it or want it, but somehow I feel stained by it. But I think this Stoic post is suggesting that this control over ourselves (the power to learn and care) is the power we have. If perhaps we in our own selves can’t stop hate and lies and destruction from this administration, we can feel and see and acknowledge the moral injury and not let it stop us.
We won’t stop caring.
We won’t stop learning.
We won’t stop feeling.
We won’t stop sharing.
Right?
I don’t mean “self help” exactly, or empathy exactly. I mean more like hope. I mean more like what Michelle Obama’s beautiful speech a few days ago (as I write this) articulated at the opening of Barak Obama’s presidential library. Toward the end (the whole thing is worth listening/reading) she said:
“when we truly see each other, when we strive to bring out the best in ourselves and one another, oh, there is no limit to how high we can go”
Of course generally what my blog is about is scripture and Jesus and church and wonder and creativity and storytelling and all that. I think the strength to see — to witness — and to hope is for me right there in my faith, not my own strength. (I just want to hide under the covers some days.) To see and listen. To help. To pray. To be centered enough that we are each of us God’s beloved child, and each of us is also a sinner, and we can each of us be forgiven, and we can each of us strive higher. It is not just my strength that I lean on, right? There is some tiny place of strength in me that comes from the triune God.
Although some days are harder than others, yes? Moral injury, I think and feel, is hurting each of us these days.
Let me pray: Holy Creator and Redeemer God and God of Love, ground us. Keep us open to learning, to seeing, to hoping, to acting as we can, to taking care of our house, to taking care of each other, to caring. Heal us, mend us, mold us, help us.
FTGOG