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I’ve mentioned several times that the best thing about blogging is the wonderful people you meet. Every now and then we lose one of these wonderful people, and that proves to be very upsetting. This is the case of the talented writer, Dr. Pat Spencer.
Pat approached me a few years ago asking if I would like to read a copy of her latest book and write a review if I wished. She also asked to read one of my books. I was impressed with her writing, and we kept in touch. She gave me her Irish Feckle Bread recipe, which I love. I have since read more of her work and am intrigued by the variety of topics she writes about. From human trafficking, the plight of Irish immigrants during the depression, and the effect of apartheid on a family in South Africa, no subject has been too difficult for her to tackle.
Her advice for emerging authors: Read everything you can about the craft of writing, attend classes and workshops, whether online or in person, join a good critique group, and never stop learning. Every skill you develop will make you a happier writer.
When I heard of her passing through another blogger/writer friend, I was very sad.

From her Goodreads page:
Dr. Pat Spencer has a lifetime of experience publishing fiction and nonfiction. Her book credits include the literary and historical fiction trilogy of Sticks in a Bundle Trilogy — Sticks in a Bundle: The Early Years (Book I), Transitions (Book II), and The Decision (Book III) -; Golden Boxty in the Frypan, historical fiction; A Baker’s Dozen For Writers: 13 Tips for Great Storytelling; and Story of a Stolen Girl, an International thriller.. Her textbook is published by Milady/Cengage Learning.
Pat’s short story, A Healing Place, won the 2019 Oceanside Literary Festival. Other short stories and articles are published in journals such as the Literary Yard, Scarlet Leaf Review, Potato Soup Journal, Almost an Author, Vine Leaves Press, and Academy of the Heart and Mind. Pat authored a column in the Press-Enterprise newspaper and served as a columnist and contributing editor to Inland Empire Magazine.
Pat lived in three countries and seven states. She loves to travel and spent time in Europe, South Africa, Botswana, Zambia, Zimbabwe, Namibia, New Zealand, Australia, Italy, Greece, Mexico, the Galapagos, and the Bahamas, as well as Alaska and the Hawaiian Islands. She has road-tripped across the continental United States several times. Pat enjoys getting to know people and learning about their culture.
Dr. Spencer, a retired professor and community college president, lives in Southern California with her husband. She speaks to service and community organizations on human trafficking, writing processes, and her books. When not writing, Pat golfs, reads, walks the beach, hangs out with family and friends, or frequents book clubs and writing critique groups.
My5-star reviews of some of her books.

The Story of a Stolen Girl by Pat Spencer
5-Stars -This is a gripping, action-packed novel about a sensitive subject. It’s also about mother-daughter relationships and the strength of a mother’s love. When her eighteen-year-old daughter, Darby, goes missing, Nina Richards can’t sit and wait for the authorities to find her and takes it upon herself to locate her. What she discovers is unbelievable and horrifying. If you like fast-paced, heart-stopping stories, you will enjoy this book. The author obviously did a lot of research to create a believable work of fiction. At the end of the book, Ms Spencer explains why she wrote this book and how she hopes it will bring attention to the deplorable human trafficking that happens all over the world, not just in third-world countries.

Golden Boxty in the Frypan by Pat Spencer
This is a remarkable story about an immigrant Irish family in America trying to survive during the desperate 1930s. The story is told from the point of view of Katie, a sensitive, loving girl who cares for her family very much. Her mother is portrayed as a resourceful, hardworking woman, who struggles with a houseful of children, a sick mother and a husband who drinks up most of his earnings. She constantly finds herself pregnant. They move to another part of the country where things seem to look up for a while but then go terribly wrong. Katie, like her mom, is a strong little girl who will do anything to keep her family together. My heart broke for her many times. The characters in this story are well-developed as is the vivid depiction of dire times. If books like Angela’s Ashes catch your interest, you will want to read this book.

Sticks in a Bundle: The Early Years by Pat Spencer
A realistic depiction of life during apartheid told from the point of view of a young girl. Eshile Mthembu is six at the start of this absorbing story; an intelligent, curious child who enjoys eavesdropping to learn more about her family’s history. The characters are colourful and well-developed. Eshile is very real with hopes and fears that all children have as they navigate growing up. But her situation is perilous, as poverty and danger are around every corner. I love her family for all their faults: mother, father, grandparents, aunts and uncles, and how they all try to support each other. The women in this story are strong and formidable, despite the domineering, patriarchal men in their lives. This is the first in the trilogy, and I look forward to reading the rest as I’ve grown fond of the characters.
Pat will be missed by her many friends and loving family, as well as the writing community. I feel privileged to have known her, even if only via the internet. I feel I have lost a dear friend.
To read her obituary, click here
To learn more about her books, click here
Thursday Doors: Paris!
Posted on: July 31, 2026
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It took me a long time to get there, but when I finally did, I totally fell in love with Paris, as many people do. Of course, there are many interesting buildings, doors and windows in this fascinating city.

Let’s start with the most famous building of all, Notre Dame

The front doors of Notre Dame.

The Paris Opera House

The door to the ticket office at the Opera House.

And of course the Louvre

The Dome des Invalides, where the tomb of Napoleon Bonaparte is held.


The bathroom doors in the Hôtel des Invalides, which I thought were very cool.

My dream was to visit this famous bookstore named in honour of Sylvia Beach, who’d founded the original Shakespeare and Company in 1919. Her store was a gathering place for the great expat writers of the time—Joyce, Hemingway, Stein, Fitzgerald, Eliot, Pound—as well as for leading French writers at the time.

Yes, I was happy at the door of this absolutely wonderful bookstore. I bought a copy of Hemingway’s The Sun Also Rises.

A Paris street scene with cool buildings and doors. We enjoyed a coffee and macarons at Odette.

The entrance to Victor Hugo’s home, from 1832 to 1848, in Place des Vosges, a fashionable square to live in during the 17th and 18th centuries.

Place des Vosges, one of my favourite places in Paris, has fabulous doors.



Église Saint-Julien-le-Pauvre, Church of Saint Julian the Poor, the oldest religious building in Paris.
I hope you enjoyed this little tour of Paris with some of my favourite buildings and doors.
This is part of Thursday Doors, a weekly challenge for people who love doors and the architecture that surrounds them. You can join this challenge any week simply by posting a picture(s) of a door(s) on your blog and leaving a link in the comment section of Dan’s blog. You can do that between midnight Thursday and noon Saturday. Read all about participating here
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I mentioned earlier that my e-books are on sale at Smashwords for the month of July. But it’s not just my books. There are many other great books on sale, perfect for summer reading.
Check out some of my friends’ books:
Two great books by Elizabeth Gauffreau https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/ElizabethGauffreau1240

Debra Purdy Kong has her exciting series on sale for 75% off: https://www.smashwords.com/books/byseries/60911



Audry Driscoll’s amazing book is on sale. https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/1785493

As well as all of her other books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/audreydriscoll
If you haven’t read any of Georgia Rose’s Shade Darker series, now is the time to stock up at $1.49 a book! Once you start reading these books, you won’t be able to stop. https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/GeorgiaRose148



There are so many books on sale. I don’t know about you, but my favourite summertime activity is reading!! This is the perfect time to load your e-reader and read the summer away.




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Thursday Doors: Valencia III
Posted on: July 9, 2026
- In: Doors | Spain | Travel
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I’ve been to Valencia more than once, so I have many pictures of the doors, windows and architecture of this wonderful city. I took my cousin visiting from Canada there, and we explored a part of the city I hadn’t been to before..

The entrance to the cute little cafeteria near our hotel where we had a wonderful meal with super friendly staff.

San Agustin church was part of an Augustinian convent built on this site in 1307, which was one of the biggest in Valencia at the time. Only the church remains, which was restored in 1940 after it was heavily damaged in the Spanish Civil War.


Side entrance to San Agustin church

I love the details of this old church.

The train station beside the old bull ring.

The entrances and windows of the old bull ring with a matador statue in front paying tribute to an old tradition.

An interesting building. I love the balconies.

An office building.


This must be an important building.

Another important building.

The entrance to the Municipal Library of Valencia.

The library side view. The building used to be the old hospital of Valencia.

The entrance to a bakery where we had a fabulous breakfast.

And in a bookstore window, I found a display of Jane Austen books!!
I hope you enjoyed a few more pictures of Valencia.
Welcome to Thursday Doors, a weekly challenge run by Dan Antion, for people who love doors and the architecture that surrounds them. You can join this challenge any week simply by posting a picture(s) of a door(s) on your blog and leaving a link in the comment section of Dan’s Blog. You can do that between midnight Thursday and noon Saturday. Read all about participating here.

Thursday Doors: Valencia, Spain II
Posted on: June 25, 2026
- In: Doors | Spain | Travel
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My previous Thursday doors post featuring Valencia was well received, so I decided to share more doors and windows from this amazing Spanish city.

The Church of Los Santos Juanes

A close up of the front of the church

Found around the back of the Church of Los Santos Juanes. It’s always good to go around to the back.

The Palace of Marquis de Don Aguas, which houses the fabulous Ceramics Museum





The splendid facade of the building is worth the visit alone.

Another entrance to the Ceramics Museum.

The front door to The Church of St. Andrew the Apostle

Another entrance to the Church of St Andrew the Apostle

Door to an ice cream parlour

An old door frame is incorporated into a painting on a building’s wall. I love this!
Thursday Doors is a weekly challenge created by Dan Antion for people who love doors and architecture to come together to admire and share their favourite door photos, drawings, or other images or stories from around the world. If you’d like to join us, simply create your own Thursday Doors post each (or any) week and then share a link to your post in the comments on Dan’s blog post. Check out all the other amazing door posts. https://nofacilities.com/2026/06/25/czechoslovak-room/
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I would like to thank long-time blogging friend and fellow author, Stevie Turner, for nominating me for the Sunshine Blogger Award. Please check out Stevie’s interesting blog and her great selection of character-driven books.
Before I answer Stevie’s questions, here’s a list of the rules for anybody taking part:
Guidelines
1) Display the award’s official logo somewhere on your blog
2) Thank the person who nominated you
3) Provide a link to your nominator’s blog
4) Answer your nominator’s questions
5) Nominate up to eleven bloggers
6) Ask your nominees eleven questions
7) Notify your nominees by commenting on their blogs
My responses to Stevie’s questions:
- Is your cup of life half full or half empty?
Mine is always half full! In fact I would say it’s more than half full more like 75% full.
2. What are you afraid of?
I have an irrational fear of rodents.
3. Do you believe in an afterlife?
I was brought up in a Christian home, and I believe in life after death. I also believe that the afterlife can be different for different people.
4. What is one thing you wish for?
I wish people would just get along. I will never understand petty squabbling. Agree to disagree and move on.
5. Would you rather do a skydive or go punting on a calm river?
Punting on a calm river sounds idyllic. (I had to look up the word punting)
6. What would you like politicians to ban?
I would like bullying to be banned.
7. Would you rather go to a music festival where your favourite band is playing, or watch them play on TV instead?
I love live music and have been to many live events over the years, but I no longer enjoy the crowds so I guess for now I have to settle with watching them on TV. But I will never forget seeing the Eagles live on stage or The Moody Blues performing outside at a lake near Vancouver. It would not have been the same on TV.
8. There’s one thing (not a person) you have with you when you become stranded on a desert island. What is that one thing?
A big fat book. I couldn’t bear to be without something to read.
9. What would you like to learn?
I would like to learn another language fluently. I live in Spain, but my Spanish is not fluent.
10. What in your opinion is the best social media site for writers to get their work noticed?
I think an active blog is the best social media platform for getting your writing noticed. I am on other social media sites but my blog has gotten me the best exposure. Partly because the blogging community is so very supportive.
11. Could you dance the Cha-cha if your life depended on it?
Sure, if my life depended on it. I’m not saying I would do it well!
I have been nominated for this award a few times already, so I’m not going to nominate any bloggers specifically. However, if anyone would like to answer any or all of my questions, here they are:
- If you could be any animal, what would it be and why?
- What is a book you read that stuck with you for a long time?
- What is a quality you look for in a friend?
- What is your pet peeve?
- What brings you joy?
- What have you done in your life that you are most proud of?
- What is the scariest thing you have ever done?
- If you could go back to being any age again, what age would that be?
- If you could have lunch with a famous person, alive or dead, who would it be?
- What is your comfort food?
- Why do you follow a blog?
























